The Art Of Self-Control

"So think clearly and exercise self-control." I Peter 1:13
In the 1960's, which was considered the "hippie" generation within the United States,there was a popular phrase, "If it feels good, do it!" Obviously, this was a message promoting instant gratification, minus worry of the probable consequences. Today, many people affirm this is the "me" generation. In other words, everything is about the individual's needs, whims and desires.

At a glance, these may sound like very suitable life philosophies, but let us keep in mind that what society may deem popular is not always what God considers appropriate.

You may ask, "What's wrong with satisfying a desire of mine? After all, aren't I worth it? I see no reason to deprive myself of what makes me feel good!"

Quenching healthy desires is a very good thing, but it is the feeding of poison into our minds, bodies and spirits that ultimately bring sickness and risk of death to our souls. For example, a vial of heroine may bring temporary nirvana, but most wise individuals understand why it is best to leave such substances alone. Unfortunately, satan is such a deceiver that not all things which are a danger to us are so clearly marked. Consider the married husband or wife who has a bit too much to drink at a night club, and is seriously considering an extra-marital affair with the flirtatious person they just met. Their mind and body might be saying, "Go for it! It will feel great, and what your spouse doesn't know won't hurt them," but the reality is, the sin of adultery will hurt, not only God and your own spiritual welfare, but there will be a negative effect within your marriage.

As the above Bible verse explains, it is best for us to think clearly, soberly and using godly wisdom, and to practice the art of self-control. The ability to refuse and turn away from those things that are unhealthy and harmful to our minds, bodies and spirits, is not about deprivation, but for the protection of ourselves and our loved ones. It is the wise and mature person who understands the beauty in the word "no" at the appropriate times.

Yes, my friends, sometimes it is necessary in life to say a firm "No," but at other times, such as in regard to our acceptance of Christ in to our lives, it is good to say "Yes!"

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Contributed by Melanie Schurr (Copyright (c)2003 Melanie Schurr) Melanie Schurr is author of "Ecstatic Living Ecstatic Loving: How to have more peace and joy in marriage, and life in general by walking in harmony with God," and "Son Salutations: A refreshing collection of modern inspirations for those who seek God each day." For more information, visit her web page at www.angelfire.com/mi/melschurr