UP Words

The other day, for instance, I told my family I wanted to try out a new recipe and that I needed a guinea pig. My kids ran screaming out of the room and immediately started hiding their pets. All I wanted was someone to try my new dish! "Guinea Fricassee" was the farthest thing from my mind, believe me. I have to admit, however, Ithought about smacking my lips with something like, "Mmm, tastes like chicken." Too bad the kids were already running through the house taking an animal inventory.

These miscommunications happen to others too. My brother, Randy, was in the car with his 12 and 13-year-old boys. The talk show on the radio brought up the topic of spanking. One caller was bragging, "I got my last spanking at 12 years old when I learnedI could outrun my parents." Randy had to get out at that point and put gas in the car.

When he got back, his oldest son tattled, "Dad, Benny said he could outrun you!"

Benny was indignant. "Did not! I said anyone could outrun Dad!"

Sometimes a tough time is not necessarily a result of someone misinterpreting words. It's a result of choosing to say the wrong ones. Words seem cheap. They don't weigh anything, you can't see them, they're not fattening and once they're off the lips there's hardly any physical evidence they've been there. But we shouldn't kid ourselves. They're potent. They can heal or hurt, build up or tear down. I've decided that words are sort of directional. The up or down of my words is my choice. Proverbs 12:25 is a directional example: "An anxious heart weighs a man down, but a kind word cheershim up."

I want to make a point of using "up" words. Words that "build up, lift up, cheer up"-- in general "stir up" good. One of my favorite Bible verses is Hebrews 10:24. "And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works."

Words are a giant part of my life. I write them and speak them every day. My children watch how I use them. They can also sense the direction of the words that I send their way. I want each word to go in the right direction and from the right direction-- from a clean heart UP! I think Iíll let Ephesians 4:29 be my word compass. "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others UP according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen."

UP words will leave a good taste in my mouth every time-- not necessarily like chicken.

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Contributed by Rhonda Rhea
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